Getting married in Ireland is, like so many things, pretty straightforward once you know what you're doing. But given that most people get married just the once, no one will blame you for not knowing the ins and outs. That's why we've put together a quick overview of the options for different types of wedding ceremony and the requirements for each method of getting married in Ireland. This should give you a good heads up on what's required to organise the kind of marriage ceremony you want, but do refer to the links provided for more in-depth information on how to get married in Ireland.
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How to Get Married in Ireland
In general there are three types of legal wedding ceremony in Ireland - religious (Catholic, Protestant, interfaith, spiritual etc.), civil (done by a state representative - a HSE registrar) and secular (Humanist or non-religious) ceremony. Below, we've outlined the core points involved in each. In all cases, it's best to contact the offices you will be dealing with as soon as possible to get the ball rolling and ensure you have all your Ts crossed and Is dotted well in advance of the big day.
Catholic Weddings
- Policies on conducting marriage ceremonies vary from church to church, so when you've decided on the church you would like to have your wedding in, it is essential to meet and discuss your request with the priest of the parish to ascertain whether your request can be granted. There's no guarantee on dates, whether the priest will perform the ceremony, or even allow you to have the wedding in the parish if you're from outside the area.
- It’s imperative to confirm the details - the church, the date, priest (who will be your registered solemniser) - a minimum of three months in advance (we advise 8-10 months in advance).
- Arrange an appointment to give notice to the Civil Registrar of Marriage a minimum of three months in advance, in order to obtain a Marriage Registration Form (MRF).
- Essential documentation you will need: baptismal certificate, confirmation certificate and a letter of freedom from each parish you have lived in since the age of 18.
- You must complete a Marriage Preparation Course and provide a certificate to the priest in advance of the wedding.
Further information is available on accord.ie. Get our complete guide to planning a Catholic wedding in Ireland here.
Other Religious or Spiritual Weddings
- These are any weddings that include faith elements. Contact the authorities of the religion in question, or the organisational body your celebrant is affiliated with (for example such as the Spiritual Union of Ireland, Entheos etc) to discuss any requirements they may have.
- Book your celebrant as they will be named on your Marriage Registration Form (MRF).
- Ensure that the officiant is on the register of solemnisers so that the marriage will be legally recognised. You will find great solemnisers on our list of recommended celebrants here.
- All couples must give notice to the Civil Registrar of Marriage a minimum of three months in advance. (We advise 8-10 months due to the long waiting list)
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Civil Ceremony Weddings
- Meet with your registry office well in advance. You must notify them a minimum of three months in advance, but there is often a much longer lead time for certain popular dates and times.
- You will need two witnesses age 18 or older to attend the wedding.
- If you wish to marry at a venue outside of the registry office, check that the venue, and the specific room you want the ceremony in, is licensed for civil ceremonies, or you will have to organise this. Many of our recommended wedding venues are licensed for indoor and outdoor spaces. Read our post on the difference between a celebrant, a solemniser and an officiant first!
- Registrars only perform ceremonies outside the registry office on prescribed days at certain times, and incur extra cost. Each county office has its own rules, check with your chosen office on the details.
- Civil ceremonies are performed by civil registrars from Monday to Friday only, never at weekends.
Further information:
- The HSE's civil ceremony guidelines and list of civil registration offices.
- Citizen's Information on getting married and different ceremony types
Secular Weddings
- A Humanist wedding ceremony is a secular celebration. There can be no faith elements included in the ceremony. The format of the ceremony is very flexible and led by the wishes of the couple and can include poetry, readings, vows, music and traditions according to your own preferences. Each celebrant will have templates that you can review and adapt and will assist in the development of your celebration.
- As with religious ceremonies, each couple must give notice to the Civil Registrar of Marriage a minimum of three months in advance, and obtain a Marriage Registration Form (MRF).
- To discuss arranging a Humanist wedding, you should contact a celebrant directly, details are provided on the Humanist Association website below.
- As with a civil ceremony, there are criteria on venues and locations for a Humanist ceremony to be legally binding, chat to your celebrant about where you want to get married and they'll discuss how to make it work.
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Interfaith Ceremonies
- An interfaith wedding ceremony is a religious wedding ceremony for people of multiple faiths. There are many celebrants in Ireland who are registered with the HSE to perform this kind of ceremony - you'll find our favourites here!
- As with religious ceremonies, each couple must give notice to the Civil Registrar of Marriage a minimum of three months in advance and obtain a Marriage Registration Form (MRF).
- To discuss arranging an interfaith wedding, you should contact a celebrant directly. We've linked to a list of our favourites below, and also provided a link to the full register of legal solemnisers in Ireland.
- As with a civil ceremony, there are criteria on venues and locations for an interfaith ceremony to be legally binding, chat to your celebrant about where you want to get married and they'll discuss how to make it work.
Further information:
The Legalities of Getting Married in Ireland - Points to Note
- Get the full checklist for marriage notification with the Civil Registrar here
- You can only be legally married by someone on the Register of Solomnisers - get the list here!
- If you hire a professional celebrant who is not registered, or ask a friend to conduct your ceremony, it won't be legal, and you'll need to have a separate legal ceremony
- The non-refundable fee for a notification of marriage is €200
- After your wedding, you can go to your nearest Registrar of Births, Marriages and Deaths to order copies of your marriage certificate, these cost €20 each
- Same-sex marriage is legal in Ireland. To convert a civil partnership to a marriage, you still need to notify the Civil Registrar of your intention to marry and your civil partnership will be dissolved on marrying. The fee for this is €50, rather than the usual €200. Read more on that here.
- If you or your partner are a foreign national, or you are an EU national marrying a non-EU national, you'll also need to attend an interview with the registrar.
- If you live abroad, you can find information on sending a postal notification of marriage here.
- If you need to postpone your marriage ceremony, there are two options. If the new date is within the six-month period, your form can be amended (contact the civil registration office that did your paperwork about this). If you're not getting married within six months, contact the civil registration office and give them your new date at least three months in advance. You'll need to meet with the registrar again to get a new marriage registration form. There is no charge for this.
Please note that the above information on how to get married in Ireland relates to processes and requirements in the Republic of Ireland. For information on the requirements in Northern Ireland, please refer to NI Direct's NI Direct's guidelines for marriage in Northern Ireland.
Visit our dedicated Ceremony Section for more advice and ideas for planning your ceremony.
