The subject of bridal party outfits is often the cause of much confusion, especially when it comes to finances! And one of the questions we get asked most frequently is, "Who pays for bridesmaids' dresses?" Unfortunately, there isn't a snappy, one-line answer to this question, but we've managed to cover all bases in this post! Panic no more, brides and bridesmaids, because, in five minutes, you'll know exactly who should be paying for the bridesmaids dresses.

Who Pays for Bridesmaids Dresses?

In theory, anyone who's generous enough to offer should be able to pay for the bridesmaids dresses without causing offense, even the mother-of-the-bride, if she so wishes! But what you're really asking with this question is who is expected to pay for bridesmaids dreses, and that's where things get complicated, as traditions differ according to where in the world you're from! We've broken the question down by region, so keep scrolling to find your answer. If your region isn't included here, we recommend conducting a short experiment: ask around your friend and family group to gauge which of the below scenarios is most common in your area or community. This will likely be the tradition your bridesmaids are most familiar with, and this is the guideline you should follow for your own big day.

Who Pays for Bridesmaids Dresses in Ireland?

1. In Ireland, the tradition is for the bride or the couple to pay for the bridesmaids dresses, particularly if the bride has got a specific dress or type of dress in mind.
2. If the bride is very relaxed about the kind of outfits she'd like the bridesmaids to wear, she can suggest that they choose and purchase their own dresses. Of course, if she takes this route, she has to be willing to accept the outcome!
3. Sometimes a compromise is reached between the bridesmaids and bride, in which the bridesmaids choose and pay for their own dresses, but they run their choices by the bride and each other, to make sure that their looks complement each other, and the aesthetic and vibe of the day. In this case, though, the bride shouldn't be too picky - it's bad form for the bride to veto dozens of dresses if she's not footing the bill!

Who Pays for Bridesmaids Dresses in the UK?

• In the UK, the tradition varies quite a lot! In roughly 3/4 of cases, the bride or the couple pays for the bridesmaids dresses. In the other 25 per cent of cases, the bridesmaids pay for their own dresses.
• It's a good idea to ask around your friend and family group to gauge which of the above scenarios is most common in your region or community. If, for example, everyone you ask is familiar with the tradition of the bride paying for the dresses, you can be reasonably confident that your bridesmaids will be, too!
• As a general rule, whether the bride pays for bridesmaids dresses in the UK depends on how much influence she'd like over the style of dresses.
• If the bride has got a specific dress or type of dress in mind, she should offer to pay for the dresses.
• If the bride is very flexible about the kind of outfits she'd like the bridesmaids to wear, she can suggest that they choose and purchase their own dresses, as long as she's willing to accept the outcome!
• A compromise may be reached between the bridesmaids and bride, in which the bridesmaids choose and pay for their own dresses, but run their choices by the bride and other bridesmaids, to make sure that their looks complement each other. In this case, though, the bride should try not to be too picky!

Who Pays for Bridesmaids Dresses in the US?

• In the US, the tradition is for the bridesmaids to each pay for their own dress, regardless of who is making the final call on what the dresses will look like.
• The bride should try to be flexible about the kind of dresses she chooses for her girls. She should avoid being too extravagant, and take their opinions into account. It's only reasonable that they will want to like the dress, feel good in the dress, and expect to wear it again. This is always something to bear in mind, but even more so when bridesmaids are paying for their own dresses!
• Sometimes, the brides and bridesmaids agree to split the cost of the dresses. Offering to pay half the cost of the dresses is a nice gesture on the part of the bride, especially if she has an expensive dress in mind, or knows that one or more of her bridesmaids is strapped for cash.
• If the bride offers to pay in full, the bridesmaids will probably not be offended, but they may insist on paying themselves, according to tradition!

Who Pays for Bridesmaids Dresses in Australia?

• In Australia, the tradition is for the bridesmaids to each pay for their own dress, regardless of who is making the final call on what the dresses will look like.
• A bride should try to be flexible about the kind of dresses she chooses for her bridesmaids. She should avoid being too extravagant, and take their wishes into account. It's only reasonable that they will want to like the dress, feel good in the dress, and expect to wear it again. This is always something to bear in mind, but even more so when bridesmaids are paying for their own dresses!
• Sometimes, the brides and bridesmaids agree to split the cost. Offering to pay half the cost of the dresses is a nice gesture on the part of the bride, especially if she has an expensive dress in mind, or knows that one of her bridesmaids is strapped for cash.
• If the bride offers to pay in full, the bridesmaids will probably not be offended, but they may insist on paying themselves, according to tradition!

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